Things That Make Him Go Crazy Whenever You’re Not Together
Absence makes the heart grow fonder” the old adage goes. One refrain women repeat is that they wish that special someone would miss them. And with that wish, women want to know how to make that special man in their life miss them. And this want is very normal, as a matter of fact, during the early stages of a relationship guys always tell us how much they miss us and have no problem expressing themselves emotionally. But after a little while together or apart this ‘expressing himself’ thing starts to take a nosedive. He may be your husband or significant other who you’re apart from; he may be an ex with whom you wish to reunite; or he may be a friend with whom you want something more together. If you want him to miss you there are a few ways to make that happen. Often times getting a man to miss you is nothing more than playing a few little mind games with him.
- Your girly products and clothes around his home.
They may take up a lot of space in his abode; but he knows that they are yours. They serve as subtle reminders of your existence in his life. And it reminds him of how much he misses you whenever you’re not there with him.
- Your cooking skills.
You already know that a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. It proves to him that you are someone who is perfectly capable of taking care of him. And he’s really going to miss your cooking skills whenever you aren’t around. He’s going to miss feeling pampered and taken care of. You spoil him; and it drives him crazy whenever he can’t be with you.
- Your hair all over the place.
He might act like he’s so annoyed seeing all of your hair all over his apartment or his bathroom. But watch all of that annoyance fade whenever you’re away. Know that when you’re not around, he’s going to miss you. And he’s going to hate seeing your hair around his apartment because it’s going to remind him of the fact that you’re not there with him. He’s going to hate the fact that even though your essence is there, your physical presence is nowhere to be found.
- Your physical touch.
There’s always something so calming and endearing about you touching your man. Whether it’s something as simple as the two of you holding hands as you’re walking alongside one another or if you’re just gently rubbing his leg as you’re seated beside each other. He might not really mind it as it’s going on; but he really does love it. And he’s going to end up missing it whenever you’re not within each other’s physical reach. He loves the subtle transfers of love and affection that occur within every single touch.
- Your overall chattiness about anything at all.
Whenever you’re together, he might act as if he is generally annoyed whenever you end up rambling on and on about something that he’s not even the least bit interested in. He might act as if he just wants you to keep quiet and give him some peace and silence. However, whenever you’re not around, he’s going to really end up missing hearing your voice. It’s scientifically proven that males just generally tend to find comfort and joy in hearing the voice of a woman. And when he doesn’t get to hear your voice for a while; it stresses him out.
- Your kisses.
Of course, there’s no denying the physical and emotional significance of a kiss. It’s a very endearing form of physical intimacy that all modern couples incorporate into their daily lives. Sometimes, couples can take their kisses for granted. Sometimes, he can take your kisses for granted. And he’s really going to end up missing your kisses whenever you’re not around for him to lock lips with. He’s going to miss that physical manifestation of your shared love and affection for one another.
- Your general thoughtfulness.
Whenever you’re together, he loves the fact that you’re always so thoughtful. He loves that you are always able to think of him; that you always keep him in mind regardless of what you might be doing. You are always looking out for his best interests even when he fails to do so for himself. He knows he can always count on you to be there for him because of how dedicated you are to his overall happiness and comfort. And when you’re not around, it’s as if he has to pay extra attention to his own needs.
- Your absence.
The one thing that REALLY drives a man crazy about when you’re not together is your absence. It’s as simple as that. Sometimes, a person doesn’t really fully appreciate what one has until it gets taken away from them. And if he’s REALLY feeling your absence, then you know just how much you really mean to him. He loves that you are there for him all of the time; but he really feels your impact on his life overall whenever you’re not around. It’s when you aren’t there that he really gains a better appreciation for what you add to his life.
- Your overall helpfulness in his life.
Congratulations if you have actually found a man who is deeply appreciative and thankful for everything that you do in his life. You wouldn’t have to wonder about whether he notices your overall value and effort. But if he’s the kind of guy who just isn’t expressive, know that he really appreciates your helpfulness whenever you’re not around. He grows to realize that he can’t just keep on relaxing because you are always the one who is picking up the pieces whenever you’re there. So, he has to work double-time whenever you aren’t.
